Showing posts with label books. Show all posts
Showing posts with label books. Show all posts

Monday, February 10, 2014

8 Things You Can Do to Make Time For Reading

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In our over-scheduled and fast-paced world, it can seem impossible to find time to sit and enjoy a good book.  But reading doesn't have to be another overwhelming task you have to squeeze into your day - in fact, it shouldn't be.  Here are some pointers to get you started if you desire to read more, but aren't sure how to make room for it in your life, and some thoughts on making it enjoyable, not just another to-do item.

1. This might be stating the obvious, but you don't have to buy books to read.  I feel like it's an important point to make, because we sometimes forget all the wonderful resources at our fingertips.  The number of books I read dropped significantly the first year after my oldest was born because I found myself diverting my "book money" to books, clothes, and toys for him.  I completely forgot that I didn't have to actually purchase a book in order to read it.  In case you've also forgotten, and find yourself lacking the funds to buy every book that strikes your fancy, try borrowing from a friend, download from one of the many online databases of free ebooks (like Project Gutenburg), sit and read at your local bookstore, or you could always...

2. Be a library nerd.  The modern library system is fabulous...most allow you to scour the catalog online, place books on hold, and receive an email alert when holds are ready for pick up.  At my local library, picking up hold books is incredibly fast and easy, even with very small children in tow.  We can run in, grab the books off the hold shelf near the main entrance, and use the self-checkout to get us back out the door in no time.  In addition, our library offers ebooks, which you can check-out and read on your phone/ipad/ereader and digitally return when you're done.  Highly efficient.

3. Not sure what to read?  Look at what others are reading to get ideas.  A post from the Art of Manliness recently touched on the idea, quoting David Leach, "Don't follow your mentors; follow your mentors' mentors."  I'm always looking for book recommendations to add to my "to-read" list, and I tend to follow blogs of book-lovers.  Some of my favorite book-lovin' bloggers are Haley from Carrots for Michaelmas, Edie from Life in Grace, and Anne from Modern Mrs. Darcy.

4. Limit your distractions: turn your phone on silent and turn off your computer and TV.  Sometimes the difference in whether or not I actually finish reading is the number of distractions in my life at that moment.  Responsibilities like kids and pets should not be considered distractions, but my phone, computer, TV, and iPad absolutely are.  In order to make time to read, I've found it helpful to take breaks from blog reading, checking email, and time spent on Facebook, Pinterest, and the like.  I also try to refrain from Googling every random question that comes into my mind while I'm reading, since that often leads me down a time-sucking rabbit hole.  It's hard to focus on the book in hand when our minds are being pulled in multiple directions.

5. Get the whole family involved.  If my husband mentions a book he wants to read, I search for it at our library and check it out for him.  Now that my oldest has learned some basic library behavior skills (like no running and shouting), trips to the library are more fun.  We can spend time together looking through the kids' section for books he wants to read, and find a few for sister as well.  We're still working on the concept of "these books are for keeps" and "don't tear that up!".  But by making sure there is a steady stream of books available for everyone, we've moved reading up higher on our list of favorite activities.

6. When it's a gorgeous day or evening, take your books outside.  If you have children as active as mine, you know the importance of letting them get their wiggles and jumps out of their system every day, multiple times a day.  And if you don't have kids, you still need to breathe fresh air and soak up some vitamin D.  Why not kill two birds with one stone?  Try a "book picnic" and head outside with a blanket to read your books in the sunshine.  Or, now that the days are getting longer again, take your book outside in the evening after work.  You can do this anywhere, but the most convenient place is likely your own backyard.  The kids might lose interest wander off to explore, which gives mom and dad the perfect opportunity to read in (relative) peace and quiet.  I highly recommend this.

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7. Try to push yourself outside your norm.  Are you a fiction lover?  Try a non-fiction instead (maybe a biography of your favorite author to start).  Are you mostly drawn to non-fiction?  Give fiction a chance every now and then.

8. Last, but not least, it's okay...It's okay to stop reading if you don't like a book.  You're not being graded or tested...move on to better reads!  It's okay to read slowly and take forever to finish a book.  It's not a race.  It's okay to read more than one book at once.  And it's also okay to devote yourself entirely to one book at a time.  Do what works for you.

Wednesday, January 29, 2014

On My Bookshelf in January

January-Bookshelf

I started out the month weary from Christmas and with no real plan to read anything.  When Anne from Modern Mrs. Darcy mentioned a few books she wanted to re-read this year, it reminded me of one I had forgotten I wanted to read.

Bread & Wine: A Love Letter to Life Around the Table with Recipes is beyond fabulous and has become one of my favorite food memoirs of all time.  I've tried out a handful of recipes already, and they all have gone into regular rotation in my house.  Beyond the food, Shauna's story draws you in like a conversation with one of your best friends.  At times, I was literally laughing and crying all at the same time.  Definitely moving this to my "to buy" list.


I'm always on the hunt for something new to read, so when Carmella mentioned she was learning how to cook a wolf, I was completely intrigued. More cookbook than cooking memoir, How to Cook a Wolf by MFK Fisher was first published in 1942.  It is full of advice for the home cook to be creative in frugality, which is what I expected.  I didn't expect to laugh so much!  Fisher is hilarious and full of sarcastic humor.  Her words are just as relevant today as they must have been 70 years ago.


Just as I was finishing reading Sense & Sensibility in December, Nicole from Gidget Goes Home announced the Motherhood & Jane Austen Book Club.  I love Jane Austen, but I tend to watch movies based on her novels rather than read the real deal.  I'm not sure if I'll follow along and read all 6 novels this year, but Pride and Prejudice is a favorite, so I'm determined to read at least this one.


I came across Rachel Held Evans' A Year of Biblical Womanhood somewhere online, and honestly I wasn't that interested.  But then I kept seeing references to it randomly, so I thought "eh...I'll give it a go" and checked it out from my local library.  Wow.  I'm really not sure what I expected (actually that's not true...I'm pretty sure I expected to be turned off by this book) but this book was surprisingly awesome.  As in, I couldn't put it down awesome.  As in, I still haven't watched this week's episode of Downton because I was reading this instead.  It's an incredibly thought provoking read, so if you're just the slightest bit interested in what the Bible has to say about women, I highly recommend this book.


I was a huge Full House fan growing up.  The wait list for Candace Cameron Bure's latest book is insanely long at my library, so I grabbed Reshaping It All: Motivation for Physical and Spiritual Fitness instead.  It's autobiographical as well as being a diet/motivational book.  I'm only halfway through it, so I don't feel like I can give a fair assessment of the book as a whole.  I'm enjoying the autobiographical side of the book, but I have mixed feelings on the way she intertwines spiritual and physical fitness.  Jury's still out on this one...


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And that's about it!  Do you have any book recommendations?  Share with us in the comments!

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Friday, January 10, 2014

What I Read in 2013::The List



I am astonished when I look back at the tremendous amount of books I read last year.  I've always been a voracious reader, and I usually have 3 or more books going at once.  But I think last year may have been record breaking.

There are a few changes I made which helped me plow through so many titles last year, but that is a post for another day.  This list is extensive, so I won't go into detail about why I liked each title.  I've tried to group them by similar categories so it's easier to browse.  I've also discarded any books which I didn't finish reading all the way through.  We read many, many, many children's books this year as well, which I will list in another post.

Deluxe: How Luxury Lost it's Luster by Dana Thomas

Parisian Chic by Ines De La Fressange

How To Look Expensive by Andrea Pomerantz Lustig

How To Dress for Success by Edith Head

Overdressed by Elizabeth Cline

A Return to Modesty by Wendy Shalit

Girls Gone Mild by Wendy Shalit

Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler

Scandilicious by Signe Johansen

It Starts With Food by Dallas and Melissa Hartwig

A Homemade Life by Molly Wizenberg

French Kids Eat Everything by Karen Le Billon

Bringing Up Bebe by Pamela Druckerman

Scandinavian Stitches by Kajsa Wikman

Yarn Harlot: The Secret Life of a Knitter by Stephanie Pearl-McPhee

Free-Range Knitter: The Yarn Harlot Writes Again by Stephanie Pearl-McPhee

Young House Love by Sherry and John Petersik

A Jane Austen Education by William Deresiewicz

The Well-Trained Mind by Susan Wise Bauer

The Ordinary Parent's Guide to Teaching Reading by Jessie Wise 

You Learn By Living by Eleanor Roosevelt

A Circle of Quiet by Madeleine L'Engle

Below Stairs by Margaret Powell

The Memoir Project by Marion Roach Smith

7: An Experimental Mutiny Against Excess by Jen Hatmaker

168 Hours by Laura Vanderkam

All the Money in the World by Laura Vanderkam

The $100 Startup by Chris Guillebeau

Do The Work! by Steven Pressfield

And the only two fiction books I read in 2013 that weren't of the children's variety...

Miss Pettigrew Lives for a Day by Winifred Watson

Sense and Sensibility by Jane Austen

Clearly I favor non-fiction, but I very much loved the two novels I read this past year.  Now that I realize just how much I'm leaving fiction out, I'll be making a greater effort to include novels in my reading choices for 2014.

What about you?  What were your favorite reads in 2013?


Thursday, July 11, 2013

My Picks for Summer Reading


For me, summertime evokes memories of endless days spent on the beach or lake, stretched out in the warmth of the sun, and enjoying a good book.  You won't catch me taking in much sun these days, but I still enjoy my love of reading.

I've learned to be sneaky about it.  As a mom of two tinies, I don't often get uninterrupted lengths of time to devour books.  But I've become adept at sneaking a few minutes here or there {in lieu of Facebook or *gasp* blog-reading} and have surprised myself at how much reading I've accomplished since my little Poppy-seed was born. And as to the sheer volume of books listed below...no, I have not won the lottery. Let's just say my library card and I are BFFs again.

So without further ado...heere are some of my picks for summer reading...


Parenting Books







Cookbooks





Design Books




Books on How We Eat





Books that Inspire




Entrepreneurial Inspiration






Ficiton







Children's Picture Books












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